There has been follow-up from the San Francisco visit. A third party forwarded the following email to the friends I was visiting the day after my departure ...
Dear Mrs. Kravitz,
I was walking my dog (and minding my own business) and couldn't help but notice what was in your neighbor's recycling bin. Who do they think they are: Lindsay Lohan? How can they live on Fresca, Diet Red Bull, Veuve Cliquot, Ghiradelli Chocolates and Pellegrino? Is this some kind of Gay holiday diet?
It's as small a gay town as our very own Detroit, it seems. Or at least as nosy.